Its been more than a week since my last post..I'm quite busy lately and went back to hometown to meet my family because my exam is just around the corner..So I need to get their blessing so that I can focus more on my exam..
So based on the title up there,, I want to share what I had learnt last week..It was such a great knowledge on how to know more about you and how to improve yourself..Have you ever heard about Maslow's Hierachy of Needs??
Let me explain about this pyramid..The bottom one is Physiological..What I can understand from this is you need to have yourself first..It means that you need to live your life..Make your life happy..You need to eat,,have home and etc so that you feel that you had liven up life..Then you can proceed to the next stage..The bottom one is very important because if you can stable the bottom one,, how can you move to the next step??Am I right??
Next,,Safety..What can you understand with safety??Its not that you need to be safe about yourself only..Yes its true that you need to care about yourself but you cannot achieve the self actualization because self actualization involve people around you..Take care of yourself and others too..You need to build your confidence level here..Believe in what you can do..Don't think about others say about you..You know yourself better.
The third one is Love or Belonging..From this two terms,,you need to have a good relationship with yourself first then you can have good relationship with others..What I mean by love yourself first is not the Justin Bieber song "Love Yourself" okay..haha..You need to take care about your health,,you diet and so on..Then you can move to the next step which is love others..Make friends..Build a good relationship with your family and friends..If you love someone,,show your love to that person..Be brave..But,,,I'm not so brave enough to confess my feeling to that guy..I'm still lacking of this stage..hehe..
Lets move to the second important thing in your life that can help you to get self-actualization..Esteem..Most people are very confuse with self-esteem and self-confidence..Me too..I had experienced this two things..Self-esteem is what you think about yourself..For example,"You look good.""I'm cute.""I'm pretty,"That is what we called as self-esteem..Then,,self-confidence..Self-confidence is what you think you can do..What is your ability that you have..For example,,you had been chosen to be the leader,,do you think you can do it??Ask yourself..People around you believe that you can do it..So why not give it a chance??If you think you can do it,,that is self-confidence..The ability to take risk or do something..People can have high self-esteem together with high self-confidence but sometimes you can have high-esteem but low-confidence..You think you can do it actually but your body won't allow you to do that..This is why brain and soul are the two main things that you need to consider before making any decisions..
Self-actualization..The last part and the most important part..Self-actualization you can obtained if you have completely done the all the four stage before..Why I said it like that??Okay,,let me give you a situation or example..I don't know how to describe this..
You have the passion to be a leader..But you don't have the confidence to talk in front of the people..You don't get along with you friends..You never care about your friends..Its means that you don't have the self actualization..You just think about yourself..
Such a long post i think..hehe..i'll stop for now..see you in another story..babai.. :]
